I wish I was posting more often than I am. It just seems like I alternate between being at work, feeling lonely and keeping my nephew. That and my precious time with God is what my life consists of now.
I long for someone to share things with. I long for someone to love me. I also long for someone to love.
Yesterday was a strange day. Someone who is my age and I always considered to have it all together, called me. She has a good job, great husband a 2 1/2 year old and a 5 month old. Not to mention a nice house. She met her husband at a Christian college. She called and asked me if I could watch her kids. She said she wasn't living at home right now and that she and her husband needed to get together and talk. I knew if the husband was at home with the kids and she was the one sleeping in a hotel, then she must have done something. I suspected what had happened but didn't figure it all out until last night. How can someone who has such a great family and such a great relationship with God, be unfaithful to her husband?
I've seen so many families destroyed by affairs. I think Satan looks for any weak area he can to bring down Christians. If he sees the potential for an affair he jumps at the chance. That is something that we as Christians believe is a just cause for Divorce.
In this case my friends husband is prooving what an awesome guy he is. He is determined to work this out and have her come back home. He is working on forgiveness. If I was in his situation, I'm not sure if I could ever fully trust my spouse again.
If anyone still reads my blog, please pray for my friends. Pray that they will come out of this with a stronger marriage than ever. Pray for this to not affect the children.