I've been thinking about what to write for over a week now. If I wrote everything I was feeling, it would be all complaining and whining. I'll try to go easy on the complaining, but I need to get some stuff off of my chest.
My job is not totally what I expected. I know that being a preschool teacher is hard work. I expected that. I never expected to have a director who was, well, basically a dictator.
It gives me a new appreciation for the Director I had when I worked in a preschool before. She lovingly guides her employees and is there to help them. She is not there to put them down, make them feel like they are bad people, or discourage them. She is there to encourage. She does not dictate how everything is to be done. She let's teachers be individuals with their own styles. There is a clear definition of who the teachers are. They do not change every other week as they do in team teaching. They are expected to love the children, and prepare them for school. Not try to revert back to acting like a child and being forced to participate in child activities. I feel that a teacher's job is to observe the children and provide them with a safe environment in which to learn, and allow them to learn from each other. I do think that a teacher's job is to teach, but that is through instruction. I do not believe in putting restrictions on the way children are allowed to learn. I believe in not only preparing a child for kindergarten, but sending them on to school with a love and a passion for learning. I believe in teaching to a child's potential, and challenging children who need to be challenged, not teaching them the bare basic's that they need to get by. A director should be loved by the children. She should never yell at a child. A child should not feel inimidated by a director and should not be afraid to go talk to them. A director should also never pit employees against each other. And a director should not show favortism.
These are just a few of my observations from my first few weeks of teaching.
Saturday, September 03, 2005
Monday, August 08, 2005
Long Time
It's been a long time since I have updated. I'm working from 10 a.m. until 6 p.m. now and things have been crazy.
I like my job, I love being around the Elderly people, and I love the children I work with. I am not very fond of my supervisor. But I guess there is always going to be something I don't like, no matter where I work.
I had an adventure this past Saturday. I was home alone this weekend, it started storming. I was starting to worry a little since I don't like storms, when the lights went out. Seconds after that, I saw this huge flash right outside my living room window. I heard a pop and a sizzle noise and then this big boom and my house shook. Sometime in this middle of this, I got up off the couch and the next thing I remember I was laying spread eagle on my living room floor. Then I realized that I smelled a burning smell. Kind of like a hot electrical kind of smell. So, I immediatly thought that my house was on fire. I called 911. Less than two minutes later I heard sirens. Four fire trucks and the Fire Chiefs SUV came. I was a little confused when they started to stop in front of my house, but pulled on in front of my neighbors. I was scared to be in my house, but it was hailing and lightning so bad that I was scared to be outside. I was standing on the threshold between my front door and the front porch. I noticed that the fireman weren't getting out of the one truck I could see. I finally yelled at them, then they realized they had been sent to the wrong house. Anyway, by then I couldn't smell anything anymore. They went all through my house, checked everything anf couldn't find anything. However, they said that by what I described and what I smelled that it must have either struck my house or right nearby. The Chief said that God must have been with me. Basically we don't know where it hit or why my house didn't burn. The firemen were awesome and very concerned. They also helped me calm down.
Today my neighbor came over. I told him about what happened and about the firemen going to his house first (he wasn't home). He said that his tv and vcr got ruined. He also said he was glad I had called the Fire Department because it must have hit around his house also or gotten both of ours at the same time or something. He said his house could have been on fire also, and he wouldn't have been home to know it.
I don't know how to thank God enough for sparing my house and my neighbors house.
About two hours after it happened, after the adrenalin wore off, I realized that my left knee really, really hurt. I looked and found out that it was turning purple. Apparently when I hit the floor I landed on my left knee first. I also have a small scrape on my right elbow that I didn't notice. My knee is bothering me quite a bit, but I think it's just bruised. I still don't know why I fell. I know that when I got up my heart was beating harder than it ever has and I was trembling all over. I don't know if I got a little bit of a shock or what. I don't remember falling I just remember being in the floor and getting back up.
Well, I'm up later than usual ( I got to bed really early now). I'll try not to go so long between updates this time.
I like my job, I love being around the Elderly people, and I love the children I work with. I am not very fond of my supervisor. But I guess there is always going to be something I don't like, no matter where I work.
I had an adventure this past Saturday. I was home alone this weekend, it started storming. I was starting to worry a little since I don't like storms, when the lights went out. Seconds after that, I saw this huge flash right outside my living room window. I heard a pop and a sizzle noise and then this big boom and my house shook. Sometime in this middle of this, I got up off the couch and the next thing I remember I was laying spread eagle on my living room floor. Then I realized that I smelled a burning smell. Kind of like a hot electrical kind of smell. So, I immediatly thought that my house was on fire. I called 911. Less than two minutes later I heard sirens. Four fire trucks and the Fire Chiefs SUV came. I was a little confused when they started to stop in front of my house, but pulled on in front of my neighbors. I was scared to be in my house, but it was hailing and lightning so bad that I was scared to be outside. I was standing on the threshold between my front door and the front porch. I noticed that the fireman weren't getting out of the one truck I could see. I finally yelled at them, then they realized they had been sent to the wrong house. Anyway, by then I couldn't smell anything anymore. They went all through my house, checked everything anf couldn't find anything. However, they said that by what I described and what I smelled that it must have either struck my house or right nearby. The Chief said that God must have been with me. Basically we don't know where it hit or why my house didn't burn. The firemen were awesome and very concerned. They also helped me calm down.
Today my neighbor came over. I told him about what happened and about the firemen going to his house first (he wasn't home). He said that his tv and vcr got ruined. He also said he was glad I had called the Fire Department because it must have hit around his house also or gotten both of ours at the same time or something. He said his house could have been on fire also, and he wouldn't have been home to know it.
I don't know how to thank God enough for sparing my house and my neighbors house.
About two hours after it happened, after the adrenalin wore off, I realized that my left knee really, really hurt. I looked and found out that it was turning purple. Apparently when I hit the floor I landed on my left knee first. I also have a small scrape on my right elbow that I didn't notice. My knee is bothering me quite a bit, but I think it's just bruised. I still don't know why I fell. I know that when I got up my heart was beating harder than it ever has and I was trembling all over. I don't know if I got a little bit of a shock or what. I don't remember falling I just remember being in the floor and getting back up.
Well, I'm up later than usual ( I got to bed really early now). I'll try not to go so long between updates this time.
Wednesday, July 13, 2005
Exhaustion
Working full time is wearing me out. I know I'll get used to it though. I've also got to get used to never getting anything done during the week. Currently I leave my house about 7:20 to get across town and to work by 8:00. So far it has taken 20 or 25 minutes. During the day it takes at least 30. I think that in the morning I am going the opposite way of a lot of people. I have a feeling that my commute time will increase once MTSU starts back. I get off at 4:00, and get home around 4:30. Once things get up and running at work, I may have to go in at 7 a.m. or as early as 6 a.m. I really hope the 6:00 thing doesn't happen much. I also will have to work some Saturdays. Which will give me a 6 day workweek. Oh well, those hours would be overtime.
I went for my drug test yesterday. I was being paid for the time I spent at the clinic. Anyway, I have never had a drug test before. I thought it would be like when you get tested for a UTI and you only have to pee a little, wrong! You have to pee quite a bit. Anyway, I go back there, am shown to the bathroom, notice the blue water in the toilet, am puzzled by it, then realize it's so you can't dilute your pee. Of course, I only peed about a half or less of the required amount. By law when this happens, they throw out your pee and you must start all over. I have a real problem with that. I think they should just add to it until you have enough. I'm sure that there is a reason for that though. So, then I am shown cups and a water cooler. Over a period of an hour or so, I consumed 8 glasses of freezing cold water. I sat out in the waiting room and shivered while waiting for my water to "move through." My water took it's time. Various workers kept asking if I was ready yet? Several people came and did drug tests, they got it right the first time and left. I was still sitting there. Finally after about an hour and a half (and being the only patient left) I decide to give it a try. Well, this time I peed over twice as much as needed. I carried my collection cup out to the tech. and triumphantly said "look, I did it!" I think I was more excited about filling my pee cup then I was about getting my job. Now I must cross my fingers and hope none of my presciption meds make it test positive. This can be fixed by putting them in contact with your doctor, but still, I hope it doesn't.
I'll leave you with a conversation I had with a resident today: M = Me, R = Resident
I went for my drug test yesterday. I was being paid for the time I spent at the clinic. Anyway, I have never had a drug test before. I thought it would be like when you get tested for a UTI and you only have to pee a little, wrong! You have to pee quite a bit. Anyway, I go back there, am shown to the bathroom, notice the blue water in the toilet, am puzzled by it, then realize it's so you can't dilute your pee. Of course, I only peed about a half or less of the required amount. By law when this happens, they throw out your pee and you must start all over. I have a real problem with that. I think they should just add to it until you have enough. I'm sure that there is a reason for that though. So, then I am shown cups and a water cooler. Over a period of an hour or so, I consumed 8 glasses of freezing cold water. I sat out in the waiting room and shivered while waiting for my water to "move through." My water took it's time. Various workers kept asking if I was ready yet? Several people came and did drug tests, they got it right the first time and left. I was still sitting there. Finally after about an hour and a half (and being the only patient left) I decide to give it a try. Well, this time I peed over twice as much as needed. I carried my collection cup out to the tech. and triumphantly said "look, I did it!" I think I was more excited about filling my pee cup then I was about getting my job. Now I must cross my fingers and hope none of my presciption meds make it test positive. This can be fixed by putting them in contact with your doctor, but still, I hope it doesn't.
I'll leave you with a conversation I had with a resident today: M = Me, R = Resident
M - "How are you today?"
R - "I'm mighty fine." "Hey I know you!" "Did you know I'm almost 86 years old?"
M - "I met you yesterday." "Thats Great!"
R - "watch what I can do" (he proceeds to stand up)
"I don't need no walker or cane, I can walk all by myself and I'm almost 86!"
"Do you think you'll be able to do that when your my age?"
M -" Your doing great for almost 86 " "I just hope I live to be your age"
R- (lays down on couch)
M - "you fixing to go to sleep?"
R- "I don't sleep, I just rest, I'm almost 86, I just rest"
M - "Do you sleep at night?"
R- "Yes, last night I was up five times"
M- "Did you have to use the bathroom?"
R- "no, I just needed to walk the hall. I was looking for some good lookin Women. They was all asleep though."
M - "I'm sorry"
R - "Hey, did you know that I'm almost 86 and I know 3,000 songs." "bet you don't know that many."
M- "Wow that's a lot of songs, well I need to get going." (Fearful that he will begin singing all 3,000 songs. I was later told he would!)
R- "See you later"
M - "You have a good day!"
R - "I'm mighty fine." "Hey I know you!" "Did you know I'm almost 86 years old?"
M - "I met you yesterday." "Thats Great!"
R - "watch what I can do" (he proceeds to stand up)
"I don't need no walker or cane, I can walk all by myself and I'm almost 86!"
"Do you think you'll be able to do that when your my age?"
M -" Your doing great for almost 86 " "I just hope I live to be your age"
R- (lays down on couch)
M - "you fixing to go to sleep?"
R- "I don't sleep, I just rest, I'm almost 86, I just rest"
M - "Do you sleep at night?"
R- "Yes, last night I was up five times"
M- "Did you have to use the bathroom?"
R- "no, I just needed to walk the hall. I was looking for some good lookin Women. They was all asleep though."
M - "I'm sorry"
R - "Hey, did you know that I'm almost 86 and I know 3,000 songs." "bet you don't know that many."
M- "Wow that's a lot of songs, well I need to get going." (Fearful that he will begin singing all 3,000 songs. I was later told he would!)
R- "See you later"
M - "You have a good day!"
Wednesday, July 06, 2005
God's peace
There is a man, Jeremy, at my church who I greatly admire. Jeremy has made a lot of mistakes in his life. Mostly drugs and alcohol. Jeremy is a husband and a father of 2 or 3 kids (not sure how many). On Monday (July 11'th) Jeremy begins serving a 4-10 month sentence in Jail. He is a very brave and sincere person. He also has a great love for the Lord.
Jeremy and his family began coming to Stones River 3 or 4 months ago. He plays drums in our praise band. He stood up tonight and gave on of the best testimonies I have ever heard. He said that he knew what he had done was wrong. He also said he would not go back and change it if he could because then he wouldn't be where he is today. He said his family has never been happier. He also said that he was raised Baptist and people ask him why he swiched denominations. His reply to this is "I didn't switch denominations. We all love the same God and that's what matters."
Jeremy went on to say that out of all the Church's they could have gone to, they chose Stones River. They chose Stones River because of the members love for each other and because they are not judgemental and are accepting. He said he felt a lot better about leaving knowing that we are taking care of his family.
The thing that was so awesome was that Jeremy could have kept fighting his sentence. He told his Lawyer that he was willing to take whatever the judge gave him because it was God's will. He feels he is going on a mission trip of sorts. That God must want him in Jail for a reason. That there must be someone or some people who God needs him to minister to while in jail. He is at peace with his sentence because of God.
There were some tears shed tonight, and we gathered around Jeremy and his family and prayed for them. I plan to write to Jeremy while he is in jail. I plan to tell him what a brave person I think he is. Most of all I plan to tell him what an inspiration his faith in God is to me. If I was in his situation I don't know that I could view it the same way he does. Obviously, that is a part of my needing to learn to better trust God.
Jeremy and his family began coming to Stones River 3 or 4 months ago. He plays drums in our praise band. He stood up tonight and gave on of the best testimonies I have ever heard. He said that he knew what he had done was wrong. He also said he would not go back and change it if he could because then he wouldn't be where he is today. He said his family has never been happier. He also said that he was raised Baptist and people ask him why he swiched denominations. His reply to this is "I didn't switch denominations. We all love the same God and that's what matters."
Jeremy went on to say that out of all the Church's they could have gone to, they chose Stones River. They chose Stones River because of the members love for each other and because they are not judgemental and are accepting. He said he felt a lot better about leaving knowing that we are taking care of his family.
The thing that was so awesome was that Jeremy could have kept fighting his sentence. He told his Lawyer that he was willing to take whatever the judge gave him because it was God's will. He feels he is going on a mission trip of sorts. That God must want him in Jail for a reason. That there must be someone or some people who God needs him to minister to while in jail. He is at peace with his sentence because of God.
There were some tears shed tonight, and we gathered around Jeremy and his family and prayed for them. I plan to write to Jeremy while he is in jail. I plan to tell him what a brave person I think he is. Most of all I plan to tell him what an inspiration his faith in God is to me. If I was in his situation I don't know that I could view it the same way he does. Obviously, that is a part of my needing to learn to better trust God.
Father,
Please be with Jeremy and his family over the next few months. Help Jeremy to be strong and to remember you are with him. Be with other's who are in jail with Jeremy. Help them to see you in him and to want to learn more about you. Thank you for helping Jeremy to straighten out his life.
Give Jeremy's wife strength while he is away. Help things to go smoothly for her. Please let Stones River be able to take care of her and her children while Jeremy is away. Be with Jeremy's children. It's going to be hard having their Daddy gone. They may not all understand why he is gone, but let them look back on this one day and realize what a great person their dad was during this time in his life. Help them realize that his Love for you allowed him to face up to his sins and do his time.
I ask these things in your son's name,
Amen
Please be with Jeremy and his family over the next few months. Help Jeremy to be strong and to remember you are with him. Be with other's who are in jail with Jeremy. Help them to see you in him and to want to learn more about you. Thank you for helping Jeremy to straighten out his life.
Give Jeremy's wife strength while he is away. Help things to go smoothly for her. Please let Stones River be able to take care of her and her children while Jeremy is away. Be with Jeremy's children. It's going to be hard having their Daddy gone. They may not all understand why he is gone, but let them look back on this one day and realize what a great person their dad was during this time in his life. Help them realize that his Love for you allowed him to face up to his sins and do his time.
I ask these things in your son's name,
Amen
Sunday, July 03, 2005
What I look for in a guy
I went to lunch with some people after church today. During lunch the conversation somehow turned to me being asked what I look for in a guy. The only reply I had at the time was "I'm picky." Which is true. I have to be picky, I am a Christian Woman. Whoever I date must respect me and respect God enough not to push things physically further than we should go. I've also said before that I look for a guy who is "real." My definition of that is someone who acts the same at Church as they do at home. Not someone who acts like a Christian at Church and then goes home and is someone completly different.
In my last post I stated, "I know exactly what I don't want in a guy, and I know that he must be a Christian. I know a lot of people don't feel this is important, but I want someone who is a member of the Church of Christ and has similar beliefs to mine about worship."
Also, in another post I said this, "Someone who admits he's not perfect, but strives to be a good man. Someone that respects me and makes me feel good about myself. Most importantly, I 'm looking for someone who loves Christ."
I'm sure that I've talked about dating and my desire to find the right man in other posts, those two are just a couple of examples."
Physically I like a wide range of guys, of course, I think being attracted to someone physically is an important part of a relationship. If you find them repulsvive, you're not going to be very happy. I like guys who smell good (not like they bathed in cologne, but clean, like they know what soap is). I like guys who take care of themselves (excercise - sp?, take showers,etc...) Oh, and wearing deodarent is a must.
So, hopefully that answers that question.
My family is gone until Saturday. I feel like such a looser cause all I have to do is keep my nephew and work on the August Bicycle ride. I really need to get a life.
I went shopping yesterday and got a couple of pairs of scrubs for work. Scrubs are expensive. The place I went was supposed to be an outlet. I don't think they were much, if any, cheaper though. In a month or two I'm going to need new shoes. I've been wearing the same pair of New Balance's for about 3 years now. They are starting to get worn out, even though I don't wear them that often. That will have to wait until I have the money for them.
Today is my little sister's birthday. She's celebrating tonight at the beach with my parents. She's 11 now. Seems like only yesterday that I was holding her for the first time. I fed her in the hospital when she was eight hours old. She was such a sweet baby. Now she is a sweet girl, almost young woman. She is so smart. I hope she keeps learning and knows that there is nothing she can't do. I pray for her purity, as she get's older and starts experiencing more of life. I also hope that she always loves God. I know that as she get's older, she is going to wonder more and more about her birth mother (she is adopted). She hasn't asked about it in a while, but I know she thinks about it some. I wish my parent's would go ahead and tell her. She know's she is adopted and I am so scared of her finding out about her birth mother from someone else. A lot of people know, especially people at my parent's church. I can't even imagine how much it would hurt for her to find out on accident. We are supposed to wait and tell her when she asks. I just don't want to wait until she's a teenager and is looking for reason's to be mad at my parents and she's all hormonal and stuff.
The other day I experienced a hurt, that I think all parent's experience at one time or another (but I'm not a parent). My little sister got mad at me and my mom because we wouldn't let her wear these old shorts and shirt to church Wednesday night. I heard her tell my mom "I hate you and I hate Sarah, you are both mean." Then she went to her room and I guess pouted. I believe I uttered "I hate you" a couple of times when I was growing up. I never realized, that even though you know they don't mean it, it still makes your heartache to hear that come out of what was once such a sweet and pure mouth. Oh, what I have to look forward to over the next few years!
In my last post I stated, "I know exactly what I don't want in a guy, and I know that he must be a Christian. I know a lot of people don't feel this is important, but I want someone who is a member of the Church of Christ and has similar beliefs to mine about worship."
Also, in another post I said this, "Someone who admits he's not perfect, but strives to be a good man. Someone that respects me and makes me feel good about myself. Most importantly, I 'm looking for someone who loves Christ."
I'm sure that I've talked about dating and my desire to find the right man in other posts, those two are just a couple of examples."
Physically I like a wide range of guys, of course, I think being attracted to someone physically is an important part of a relationship. If you find them repulsvive, you're not going to be very happy. I like guys who smell good (not like they bathed in cologne, but clean, like they know what soap is). I like guys who take care of themselves (excercise - sp?, take showers,etc...) Oh, and wearing deodarent is a must.
So, hopefully that answers that question.
My family is gone until Saturday. I feel like such a looser cause all I have to do is keep my nephew and work on the August Bicycle ride. I really need to get a life.
I went shopping yesterday and got a couple of pairs of scrubs for work. Scrubs are expensive. The place I went was supposed to be an outlet. I don't think they were much, if any, cheaper though. In a month or two I'm going to need new shoes. I've been wearing the same pair of New Balance's for about 3 years now. They are starting to get worn out, even though I don't wear them that often. That will have to wait until I have the money for them.
Today is my little sister's birthday. She's celebrating tonight at the beach with my parents. She's 11 now. Seems like only yesterday that I was holding her for the first time. I fed her in the hospital when she was eight hours old. She was such a sweet baby. Now she is a sweet girl, almost young woman. She is so smart. I hope she keeps learning and knows that there is nothing she can't do. I pray for her purity, as she get's older and starts experiencing more of life. I also hope that she always loves God. I know that as she get's older, she is going to wonder more and more about her birth mother (she is adopted). She hasn't asked about it in a while, but I know she thinks about it some. I wish my parent's would go ahead and tell her. She know's she is adopted and I am so scared of her finding out about her birth mother from someone else. A lot of people know, especially people at my parent's church. I can't even imagine how much it would hurt for her to find out on accident. We are supposed to wait and tell her when she asks. I just don't want to wait until she's a teenager and is looking for reason's to be mad at my parents and she's all hormonal and stuff.
The other day I experienced a hurt, that I think all parent's experience at one time or another (but I'm not a parent). My little sister got mad at me and my mom because we wouldn't let her wear these old shorts and shirt to church Wednesday night. I heard her tell my mom "I hate you and I hate Sarah, you are both mean." Then she went to her room and I guess pouted. I believe I uttered "I hate you" a couple of times when I was growing up. I never realized, that even though you know they don't mean it, it still makes your heartache to hear that come out of what was once such a sweet and pure mouth. Oh, what I have to look forward to over the next few years!
Wednesday, June 29, 2005
Feeling Down
I did a bunch of stuff today. I saw Stephanie, a woman who's little boy I keep sometimes. Stephanie and Andy (her husband) are my age, they met at Harding University and now they live here. Stephanie just had a baby girl 7 weeks ago.
Things are going good for me right now, so why do I feel lonely and down in the dumps? I was around people at Church tonight and I talked to people, but I still felt really alone for some reason.
I've talked about this before, but I see people my age that have good marriages and babies, and I can't help feeling a little jealous. That's what I want more than anything. I just have this really strong longing to be with someone and to get married. Maybe it's my biological clock ticking or something, but being single is really starting to get old.
I had to go to a friends from the Bicycle Club's office today to run 2,750 copies of the Flyer. It will be mailed out next week. Buying the paper myself, and using Brenda's work copier (a big one just like at Kinko's) saved over $400.00. Normally at Kinko's that many copies runs me about $500.00. So, I am proud of myself.
While I was at her office I saw this guy, then I did a double take and looked at him again. He was the same height (6'6"), same build (very skinny) and same hair color (brown), and even close to the same facial features, as my ex Fiance. It was really freaky. Except this guy was cuter than Bryan and when he smiled at me, he looked nothing like him. Bryan never really smiled.
Bryan was a big mistake. I rushed into the relationship, got engaged way to fast, and then saw his uncaring, hurtful side. I thank God that I didn't marry him. Bryan broke up with me when my broken arm was at it's worst, right before my second surgery on it. I wasn't fun enough, and didn't want to do enough (I had a washer end of a screw poking out my arm from the inside...much, much pain). The funny thing was that when we broke up, I felt more relieved than anything. I had known that I couldn't marry him. I saw that the day after I broke my arm, but I blamed it on all the painkillers I was on. I had surgery about a week or two after we broke up, they removed the screw from my arm at that time, and I got off painmed's right away. So basically, I was back to my normal self, about 2 weeks after we broke up.
It really hurts to have someone look you in the eye and say that they don't love you anymore. Even though I knew I didn't love him, I'm not sure that I ever loved him. I thought I was through with guys and I would just be single forever. About a year after things ended with Bryan, I started feeling ready for a relationship. now, three years later, here I am still waiting on that relationship.
One reason I'm still waiting is that I am super picky now. I know exactly what I don't want in a guy, and I know that he must be a Christian. I know a lot of people don't feel this is important, but I want someone who is a member of the Church of Christ and has similar beliefs to mine about worship. I know I could date right now, if I would settle for less than what I want, but I want someone who I can see Christ in, and I'm not going to settle for less.
Things are going good for me right now, so why do I feel lonely and down in the dumps? I was around people at Church tonight and I talked to people, but I still felt really alone for some reason.
I've talked about this before, but I see people my age that have good marriages and babies, and I can't help feeling a little jealous. That's what I want more than anything. I just have this really strong longing to be with someone and to get married. Maybe it's my biological clock ticking or something, but being single is really starting to get old.
I had to go to a friends from the Bicycle Club's office today to run 2,750 copies of the Flyer. It will be mailed out next week. Buying the paper myself, and using Brenda's work copier (a big one just like at Kinko's) saved over $400.00. Normally at Kinko's that many copies runs me about $500.00. So, I am proud of myself.
While I was at her office I saw this guy, then I did a double take and looked at him again. He was the same height (6'6"), same build (very skinny) and same hair color (brown), and even close to the same facial features, as my ex Fiance. It was really freaky. Except this guy was cuter than Bryan and when he smiled at me, he looked nothing like him. Bryan never really smiled.
Bryan was a big mistake. I rushed into the relationship, got engaged way to fast, and then saw his uncaring, hurtful side. I thank God that I didn't marry him. Bryan broke up with me when my broken arm was at it's worst, right before my second surgery on it. I wasn't fun enough, and didn't want to do enough (I had a washer end of a screw poking out my arm from the inside...much, much pain). The funny thing was that when we broke up, I felt more relieved than anything. I had known that I couldn't marry him. I saw that the day after I broke my arm, but I blamed it on all the painkillers I was on. I had surgery about a week or two after we broke up, they removed the screw from my arm at that time, and I got off painmed's right away. So basically, I was back to my normal self, about 2 weeks after we broke up.
It really hurts to have someone look you in the eye and say that they don't love you anymore. Even though I knew I didn't love him, I'm not sure that I ever loved him. I thought I was through with guys and I would just be single forever. About a year after things ended with Bryan, I started feeling ready for a relationship. now, three years later, here I am still waiting on that relationship.
One reason I'm still waiting is that I am super picky now. I know exactly what I don't want in a guy, and I know that he must be a Christian. I know a lot of people don't feel this is important, but I want someone who is a member of the Church of Christ and has similar beliefs to mine about worship. I know I could date right now, if I would settle for less than what I want, but I want someone who I can see Christ in, and I'm not going to settle for less.
Monday, June 27, 2005
No, But I've Got A Nephew
I went forward in Church yesterday to have announced that I got my job. I think people need to remember to praise God when good things happen, and not just pray when things are bad. Chuck, who made the anouncement was reminding people how badly I had needed a job with benefits. He said, "...and she's got a child." I said, "No, I've got a nephew." Everyone laughed and it was pretty funny. I thought everyone knew that he was Nephew, I guess he didn't.
Had the college group over for lunch yesterday, only six of them came. It ended up being really good though, and we all got to sit at the same table since there wasn't many of us. Also, some of the guys went back for 3'rds, and if we had had a lot of people, I think we might not have had enough food. We watched the video from our retreat a few months ago. I hope we have another retreat this fall.
I realized today that I have alot to do before I start my job. I want to get as much done for H.O.T. 100 (bike ride in August) as I can before I start my job. I also need to go buy some Scrubs. I found out that there is a Uniform outlet not far from here, that has a big selection of Scrub's cheaper than most places. I'm gonna go there next week. I copied my diploma's (High school and college) and got a copy of my college transcript today. I have to have those for work. I'm going to take those and my Infant and Child CPR certification card out to work tommorow and pick up some reference letters that I have to get people to fill out.
This is weird, but I have not had a moskito (sp?) bite in about five years. I think because I am Anemic so much and they must not like my blood like that. Well, I have a moskito bite. It's small, not all swollen up like they used to get (I'm guessing this is because of my immunosuppresent, my body must not be reacting to the bite or something) But it does itch. I guess they like me again. I had gotten used to not having to worry about them biting me. Before, they would land on me and then fly right off without biting. Maybe they should try and discover what the moskitos were sensing and bottle it as repelant?
Had the college group over for lunch yesterday, only six of them came. It ended up being really good though, and we all got to sit at the same table since there wasn't many of us. Also, some of the guys went back for 3'rds, and if we had had a lot of people, I think we might not have had enough food. We watched the video from our retreat a few months ago. I hope we have another retreat this fall.
I realized today that I have alot to do before I start my job. I want to get as much done for H.O.T. 100 (bike ride in August) as I can before I start my job. I also need to go buy some Scrubs. I found out that there is a Uniform outlet not far from here, that has a big selection of Scrub's cheaper than most places. I'm gonna go there next week. I copied my diploma's (High school and college) and got a copy of my college transcript today. I have to have those for work. I'm going to take those and my Infant and Child CPR certification card out to work tommorow and pick up some reference letters that I have to get people to fill out.
This is weird, but I have not had a moskito (sp?) bite in about five years. I think because I am Anemic so much and they must not like my blood like that. Well, I have a moskito bite. It's small, not all swollen up like they used to get (I'm guessing this is because of my immunosuppresent, my body must not be reacting to the bite or something) But it does itch. I guess they like me again. I had gotten used to not having to worry about them biting me. Before, they would land on me and then fly right off without biting. Maybe they should try and discover what the moskitos were sensing and bottle it as repelant?
Friday, June 24, 2005
Praise God!
I got my job!
They called me this afternoon. I will be working in their new daycare with preschool kids. Community Care is in the process of implimenting the "Eden Alternative." It promotes family, and community and havning a purpose. Instead of an Elderly person laying in bed all day waiting to die, they are gotten out of bed and they have different opportunites to participate in activities. The preschool kids will be interacting with the elderly people.
I have noticed that when my grandparents are around my nephew they seem to come alive. They are happier and seem to feel better when he is around. That is what it will be like for the residents at Community Care. You can read more about the Eden Alternative here: www.edenalt.com
They called me this afternoon. I will be working in their new daycare with preschool kids. Community Care is in the process of implimenting the "Eden Alternative." It promotes family, and community and havning a purpose. Instead of an Elderly person laying in bed all day waiting to die, they are gotten out of bed and they have different opportunites to participate in activities. The preschool kids will be interacting with the elderly people.
I have noticed that when my grandparents are around my nephew they seem to come alive. They are happier and seem to feel better when he is around. That is what it will be like for the residents at Community Care. You can read more about the Eden Alternative here: www.edenalt.com
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I read a lot of different Blogs. One of my favorite's is http://www.brandonscottthomas.blogspot.com
(I hope I did that right. I discovered a nifty little button that says "insert link."
His last two posts have been especially good. About stepping out of your comfort zone, and also about admitting that we as Christians have failed some groups of people. No matter what someone has done in the past, they can still be saved.
I think Church's as a whole, fail to welcome people who are different. Some people feel that they have lived their life so wrong and done so many things that they know are wrong, that it is too late.
God has an amazing ability to forgive and forget. I think I've written about this before, but God doesn't care what you've done. Jesus welcomed all people into his arms, and he still does. That's what God's Grace is all about.
Brandon say's it so much better than me. If you have time, go read his site.
(I hope I did that right. I discovered a nifty little button that says "insert link."
His last two posts have been especially good. About stepping out of your comfort zone, and also about admitting that we as Christians have failed some groups of people. No matter what someone has done in the past, they can still be saved.
I think Church's as a whole, fail to welcome people who are different. Some people feel that they have lived their life so wrong and done so many things that they know are wrong, that it is too late.
God has an amazing ability to forgive and forget. I think I've written about this before, but God doesn't care what you've done. Jesus welcomed all people into his arms, and he still does. That's what God's Grace is all about.
Brandon say's it so much better than me. If you have time, go read his site.
Sunday, June 19, 2005
Father's Day
Church this morning was great. We talked about our earthly father and also our heavenly father. It's easy to forget God on Father's Day. While we give our father's ties and other dad type gifts, we need to remember to thank God for all he does for us. As a father, he made the biggest sacrifice that their is.
I had my job interview on Friday at the Nursing home. I think I need to devote a whole post to that, so I'll write about it later. I also talked to Mark (the administrator) at church today. He said that even if I don't get hired for their daycare program, he would find me a job there. It might be cleaning rooms or something, but it's worth it for the benifits.
On my last post I had a comment from a guy I went to Elementary school with. At first I couldn't figure out how he knew who I was, then I remembered that Clark has a link to my site on his. Such a small world, that a guy I knew 20 years ago would happen upon my blog. Anyway, I think I remember who he is.
While most were celebrating Father's day today, my dad was on a plane on the way back from Utah. He just finished cycling around the state. He should be home in an hour or so. Thursday he leaves for Washington State, again to bicycle . Then the day after he get's home from that trip, my mom, sister and dad leave for the Beach. I could have gone, but that many hours in the car with them is really not fun for me. Plus, hopefully my job will come through. I went on Vacation last fall by myself. I had a great time. I did want I wanted to do, ate when I was hungry, slept when I was tired, layed out by the pool and read a book, ordered room service, and stopped whenever I needed to stop during the drive there and back. That is my idea of a vacation. I doubt I'll be going anywhere this year, but there is always next year.
I had my job interview on Friday at the Nursing home. I think I need to devote a whole post to that, so I'll write about it later. I also talked to Mark (the administrator) at church today. He said that even if I don't get hired for their daycare program, he would find me a job there. It might be cleaning rooms or something, but it's worth it for the benifits.
On my last post I had a comment from a guy I went to Elementary school with. At first I couldn't figure out how he knew who I was, then I remembered that Clark has a link to my site on his. Such a small world, that a guy I knew 20 years ago would happen upon my blog. Anyway, I think I remember who he is.
While most were celebrating Father's day today, my dad was on a plane on the way back from Utah. He just finished cycling around the state. He should be home in an hour or so. Thursday he leaves for Washington State, again to bicycle . Then the day after he get's home from that trip, my mom, sister and dad leave for the Beach. I could have gone, but that many hours in the car with them is really not fun for me. Plus, hopefully my job will come through. I went on Vacation last fall by myself. I had a great time. I did want I wanted to do, ate when I was hungry, slept when I was tired, layed out by the pool and read a book, ordered room service, and stopped whenever I needed to stop during the drive there and back. That is my idea of a vacation. I doubt I'll be going anywhere this year, but there is always next year.
Sunday, June 12, 2005
Trusting in God
I went forward in church this morning. After the bad week I had last week, I was just feeling really broken. Like I was trying to hold it all together, but inside I was a mess.
I had an opportunity earlier this week, to go to nursing school in Nashville. That happened about the same time I got my TennCare papers. School is just not an option right now because of my health insurance situation. But since then, when I ask God what I'm supposed to do, I keep hearing that little voice in me saying "trust me." I can't help wondering that if maybe I had trusted God and gone to school in Nashville, maybe everything would have worked out.
Last night, I was pretty upset, thinking about what if I had messed up? What if by not trusting God I had screwed up everything? I asked for prayers this morning for my insurance situation, and for my job situation.
I sat through the sermon knowing that I needed to go forward. I knew that what is going on is not something I can face alone. Two men at my church went up also, for different reasons. One is someone I have known a while and care very much about. All three of us were crying and people were gathered around us and prayers were said. I felt such a relief to get all of it out in the open. There is no way I could have gone up like that at my old church. For one thing, I never felt like anyone there cared, and the church is so big it would have been really intimidating.
When church was over, my preachers brother came up to me. He is an administrator at a local nursing home. He said that if I want it, there is a job for me at the nursing home, with full benefits! I'm going there tommorow to talk to him about it. All I can say is, praise God! He humbled me and made me ask for help, then he provided an answer to my problems.
I feel so blessed to be a part of Stones River Church. Every time I am there, it becomes more evident that I'm in the right place. God put me there for a reason.
I had an opportunity earlier this week, to go to nursing school in Nashville. That happened about the same time I got my TennCare papers. School is just not an option right now because of my health insurance situation. But since then, when I ask God what I'm supposed to do, I keep hearing that little voice in me saying "trust me." I can't help wondering that if maybe I had trusted God and gone to school in Nashville, maybe everything would have worked out.
Last night, I was pretty upset, thinking about what if I had messed up? What if by not trusting God I had screwed up everything? I asked for prayers this morning for my insurance situation, and for my job situation.
I sat through the sermon knowing that I needed to go forward. I knew that what is going on is not something I can face alone. Two men at my church went up also, for different reasons. One is someone I have known a while and care very much about. All three of us were crying and people were gathered around us and prayers were said. I felt such a relief to get all of it out in the open. There is no way I could have gone up like that at my old church. For one thing, I never felt like anyone there cared, and the church is so big it would have been really intimidating.
When church was over, my preachers brother came up to me. He is an administrator at a local nursing home. He said that if I want it, there is a job for me at the nursing home, with full benefits! I'm going there tommorow to talk to him about it. All I can say is, praise God! He humbled me and made me ask for help, then he provided an answer to my problems.
I feel so blessed to be a part of Stones River Church. Every time I am there, it becomes more evident that I'm in the right place. God put me there for a reason.
God,
Thank you for all you do in my life. You never stop amazing me with your love. Be with me as I go talk to Mark tomorrow about the job. Let this be an answer to my prayers. God please be with Steven and Steve. They both came forward when I did this morning. They have specific area's in their lives where they need you. God get them past what they are going through. God help me to trust in you more. Help me to put my relationship with you first.
Please be with Ashleigh. We took her to camp today. It's her first week long camp. Leaving her was not easy. Give us peace of mind, and keep her safe.
In your son's name,
amen
Thank you for all you do in my life. You never stop amazing me with your love. Be with me as I go talk to Mark tomorrow about the job. Let this be an answer to my prayers. God please be with Steven and Steve. They both came forward when I did this morning. They have specific area's in their lives where they need you. God get them past what they are going through. God help me to trust in you more. Help me to put my relationship with you first.
Please be with Ashleigh. We took her to camp today. It's her first week long camp. Leaving her was not easy. Give us peace of mind, and keep her safe.
In your son's name,
amen
Tuesday, June 07, 2005
Crying
I feel like I want to cry. For some reason I've been holding it in since saturday. It's going to come out, I just am not ready to let go yet.
I got my letter from nursing school. I'm an alternate. I realize this is further than a lot of people get. I studied my butt off for the test I had to take just to get an interview. I got my interview, and I had to answer so many questions. I answered them all honestly, I was honest about my health, and I couldn't have done any differently. So unless some person for some reason drops before class starts in a month, and I happen to be the first alternate, no nursing for me.
Today I got my Tenncare letter. Until today I could pretend that maybe I wasn't one of the ones loosing their coverage. Maybe for some reason the Tenncare people would let me keep mine. I have papers I have to send back, but from reading the stuff I'de say my tenncare is gone. I'm not being negative, it was there in black and white. I don't qualify for medicaid, I don't have children, i'm not in a nursing home...
The insurance hurts so much more than the nursing school thing. Sure I'm upset about school, but I don't know how to live without health insurance. Maybe I'm naive and dumb, but this is the first time I've really felt like my government has failed me. And it hurts. It hurts so much.
It's hard for me to have faith and to put my trust in God when it seems like my life is falling apart.
I know I sound like I feel sorry for myself. Tonight I do. In the morning, more than likely I won't, but tonight I need to let this all out.
I'm so scared about where my life is headed. Why do so many bad things happen to me? Why do bad things seem to happen all at once?
I just want God to take this pain away and take these burdens away from me. God doesn't give us more than we can bare, but I feel like I'm at the breaking point.
I'm tired of being sick, tired of being single, tired of feeling alone, just tired of everything.
I wish I wasn't alone now, I need someone to hold me and just let me cry. I've cried a little while typing this, but not like I need to.
I guess my point to all my rambling is God, please take some of these worries off of me, take them all. Help me to stop feeling so empty. God let me find a job soon. Most of all thank you, because I know, that even though I don't see them or feel them, your arms are wrapped around me right now, holding me tight.
I got my letter from nursing school. I'm an alternate. I realize this is further than a lot of people get. I studied my butt off for the test I had to take just to get an interview. I got my interview, and I had to answer so many questions. I answered them all honestly, I was honest about my health, and I couldn't have done any differently. So unless some person for some reason drops before class starts in a month, and I happen to be the first alternate, no nursing for me.
Today I got my Tenncare letter. Until today I could pretend that maybe I wasn't one of the ones loosing their coverage. Maybe for some reason the Tenncare people would let me keep mine. I have papers I have to send back, but from reading the stuff I'de say my tenncare is gone. I'm not being negative, it was there in black and white. I don't qualify for medicaid, I don't have children, i'm not in a nursing home...
The insurance hurts so much more than the nursing school thing. Sure I'm upset about school, but I don't know how to live without health insurance. Maybe I'm naive and dumb, but this is the first time I've really felt like my government has failed me. And it hurts. It hurts so much.
It's hard for me to have faith and to put my trust in God when it seems like my life is falling apart.
I know I sound like I feel sorry for myself. Tonight I do. In the morning, more than likely I won't, but tonight I need to let this all out.
I'm so scared about where my life is headed. Why do so many bad things happen to me? Why do bad things seem to happen all at once?
I just want God to take this pain away and take these burdens away from me. God doesn't give us more than we can bare, but I feel like I'm at the breaking point.
I'm tired of being sick, tired of being single, tired of feeling alone, just tired of everything.
I wish I wasn't alone now, I need someone to hold me and just let me cry. I've cried a little while typing this, but not like I need to.
I guess my point to all my rambling is God, please take some of these worries off of me, take them all. Help me to stop feeling so empty. God let me find a job soon. Most of all thank you, because I know, that even though I don't see them or feel them, your arms are wrapped around me right now, holding me tight.
Monday, May 30, 2005
Reunion
Saturday night was my Class reunion. It wasn't as bad as I had prepared myself for it to be. There was 12 or 13 of us there. Plus a few husbands/wives. Nobody brought dates. We mostly just stood around and talked. It was on the fifteenth floor balcony of our only skyrise here. It was a great view, especially at sunset. I still don't feel nearly as accomplished as everyone else, and I definatly don't have as much money as most of them, but I think I'm just as happy if not happier.
Afterward, four of us who were single and didn't have kids to go home to, went out. We went to this bar over by where the outlet mall used to be. Yes, I went to a bar. No, I didn't drink. I was the only one not drinking, but I'm used to that. I go to a bar about once every five years. That smoky, drunk atmosphere is not really me. This place was full of rednecks and skanky women. Also, I think I inhalled enough second hand smoke to last me another five years.
A high school crush was revived saturday night. It's amazing that after 10 years, I still have the same feelings from high school for this guy. Who knows if anything will ever happen with us. I probably won't see him again until our 20 year reunion. I've been pondering if he's even someone that I need to date. I mean he's nice and all and he does go to Church. But, I know way to well that just going to church means nothing. It's how a guy acts away from church that matters to me. I'm not looking for a guy who cleans up real nice, and seems like a strong christian at church, and then turns around the rest of the week and cusses and get's drunk, and acts totally different. I'm not saying that this guy is like that. He may not be at all, I just don't know. I'm looking for someone who is real. Someone who admits he's not perfect, but strives to be a good man. Someone that respects me and makes me feel good about myself. Most importantly, I 'm looking for someone who loves Christ.
I try my best to be a real person. Someone who acts the same no matter where I am. I do have a lot of layers to myself. Parts of me that I don't let many people into. Mostly because they involve hurt and pain and grief. I also may not be as talkative in some situations as in others. I guess I'm trying to say that I don't go to church pretending to be some super person who never sins. I'll admit I've made mistakes in my life. I've learned from these mistakes, and they've made me who I am today. That's what I like about my church versus where I used to go to church. No one at my church is afraid to admit that they aren't perfect. I'm not afraid of what other's think of me. I don't feel like anyone is judging me or looking down on me. I feel like that's how Jesus was. He didn't care who you had been in the past. He loved you anyway and he welcomed everyone with open arms. Well, it's not how Jesus was, it's how he still is.
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Today was Memorial day. I picked a few flowers from my garden and went to my nephews grave. He would be five and a half now. I know he would be so excited to have a little brother. His grave is at Coleman Cemetary. It's a little cemetary out old Woodbury Hwy. Uncle Dave Macon (a well known guy here, not my uncle) is burried out there also. It's weird, Uncle Dave's son used to rent a room from my great, great grandparents. Uncle Dave came and ate dinner with them some, and later his son came at ate with my Grandparents and my mom and her brother. I think it's strange how in that little cemetary there is a connection that occured totally by accident.
I put my flowers on Christians grave, then I was at a loss for words. I haven't been out there in over six months. Not since my nephew (the one I babysit a lot) was born. There was just so much I wanted to tell him, but I couldn't get most of it out. I wanted to cry, but there was some older man and another guy walking around the cemetary and I just didn't feel as alone with him as I needed to be. Maybe it's silly to visit someones grave and to talk to it, since they aren't even in there anymore, but it's where I feel the most connected to him. It's hard to go out there, it brings back so many memories. I know that he could not have lived, I know that if by some miracle he had, he would have suffered greatly. I'm glad that God took him while he was being born, before he suffered. I only knew him as the baby who kicked my hand from inside my sister's womb and as the baby who layed peacefully in my arms and only looked like he was sleeping.
Afterward, four of us who were single and didn't have kids to go home to, went out. We went to this bar over by where the outlet mall used to be. Yes, I went to a bar. No, I didn't drink. I was the only one not drinking, but I'm used to that. I go to a bar about once every five years. That smoky, drunk atmosphere is not really me. This place was full of rednecks and skanky women. Also, I think I inhalled enough second hand smoke to last me another five years.
A high school crush was revived saturday night. It's amazing that after 10 years, I still have the same feelings from high school for this guy. Who knows if anything will ever happen with us. I probably won't see him again until our 20 year reunion. I've been pondering if he's even someone that I need to date. I mean he's nice and all and he does go to Church. But, I know way to well that just going to church means nothing. It's how a guy acts away from church that matters to me. I'm not looking for a guy who cleans up real nice, and seems like a strong christian at church, and then turns around the rest of the week and cusses and get's drunk, and acts totally different. I'm not saying that this guy is like that. He may not be at all, I just don't know. I'm looking for someone who is real. Someone who admits he's not perfect, but strives to be a good man. Someone that respects me and makes me feel good about myself. Most importantly, I 'm looking for someone who loves Christ.
I try my best to be a real person. Someone who acts the same no matter where I am. I do have a lot of layers to myself. Parts of me that I don't let many people into. Mostly because they involve hurt and pain and grief. I also may not be as talkative in some situations as in others. I guess I'm trying to say that I don't go to church pretending to be some super person who never sins. I'll admit I've made mistakes in my life. I've learned from these mistakes, and they've made me who I am today. That's what I like about my church versus where I used to go to church. No one at my church is afraid to admit that they aren't perfect. I'm not afraid of what other's think of me. I don't feel like anyone is judging me or looking down on me. I feel like that's how Jesus was. He didn't care who you had been in the past. He loved you anyway and he welcomed everyone with open arms. Well, it's not how Jesus was, it's how he still is.
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Today was Memorial day. I picked a few flowers from my garden and went to my nephews grave. He would be five and a half now. I know he would be so excited to have a little brother. His grave is at Coleman Cemetary. It's a little cemetary out old Woodbury Hwy. Uncle Dave Macon (a well known guy here, not my uncle) is burried out there also. It's weird, Uncle Dave's son used to rent a room from my great, great grandparents. Uncle Dave came and ate dinner with them some, and later his son came at ate with my Grandparents and my mom and her brother. I think it's strange how in that little cemetary there is a connection that occured totally by accident.
I put my flowers on Christians grave, then I was at a loss for words. I haven't been out there in over six months. Not since my nephew (the one I babysit a lot) was born. There was just so much I wanted to tell him, but I couldn't get most of it out. I wanted to cry, but there was some older man and another guy walking around the cemetary and I just didn't feel as alone with him as I needed to be. Maybe it's silly to visit someones grave and to talk to it, since they aren't even in there anymore, but it's where I feel the most connected to him. It's hard to go out there, it brings back so many memories. I know that he could not have lived, I know that if by some miracle he had, he would have suffered greatly. I'm glad that God took him while he was being born, before he suffered. I only knew him as the baby who kicked my hand from inside my sister's womb and as the baby who layed peacefully in my arms and only looked like he was sleeping.
Thursday, May 26, 2005
Pulled Muscle
I think I pulled a muscle in my back at yoga/pilates last night. I didn't have my nephew last night so I went to an extra class at Patterson Park. Yes, I skipped church to do it. Sometimes I need to think about God in different ways. When I am totally concentrating on my breathing or trying to balance and not fall over, I can feel God there. When I contort myself into some strange new yoga position, I find myself thinking in awe about how God made our bodies capable of doing so much. To think of all that went on in designing the human body and all the fine details, what an enormous job! When Adam and Eve were in the garden of Eden, their bodies were perfect. God had made a perfect being. Now our bodies have problems. We get sick, and we get old. We as Christians have the upper hand on non Christians. One day our bodies will be perfect again. We'll be in a perfect place. I myself am looking forward to no more pulled muscles.
After I got out of class last night, I thinking of going home, eating and going to bed. As I neared my car, I thought I heard a faint ringing noise. It got louder as I pushed the button to unlock my doors. My cell phone was in my center console ringing away. Seems my sisters fever went back up and she wanted me to come get my nephew. She lives about a minute from Patterson Park, so I went and got him and brought him over here for the night. He was great, he took a bath, ate his cereal and fruit,(baby oatmeal and I think pears) took a bottle, and went to sleep. He slept soundly until 7:15 this morning. I fed him another bottle, then he went with my mom to a program at my little sisters school. I hope someday that I can have a baby as perfect as he is. Even if I can't have it myself, I hope I get the opportunity to be a mom.
There is a little girl I have babysat for a few times. Her mom had a baby boy six weeks ago, he has downs syndrome. To me he is perfect also. He's such a little fellow and has such a hard life ahead of him. They won't know the extent of his downs (as far as mental and physical development), until he is older. I pray that he grows to be a sweet, tender hearted boy, with very little limitations. I've always felt a strong pull towards children with handicaps. I should know something in a week or two about nursing school. After that, we'll see what God has in store for me.
I paid for my class reunion. There's no backing out now. I hope they're all fat. I know that's not nice, and should someone I went to school with ever read this, I suppose I would be emberrased. But it's true. At least I am an honest person.
The family is leaving for Georgia tomorrow. I'll have my nephew part of the weekend, but hopefully I can relax for some of it. My irritable bowel has been, well, slightly irritable this week. Possibly the stress of the reunion, or the stress of waiting for info. on nursing school. More than likely a combination of both. I'm just not feeling quite right and I pray I'm not headed towards an ulcerative colitis flare up. That is the last thing I need right now. Anyway, something is going on with my gut. I guess I should have posted a waring before this for people who don't want to hear about my colon. Well, Clark told us about his foot fungus, so I can talk about my colon. :)
After I got out of class last night, I thinking of going home, eating and going to bed. As I neared my car, I thought I heard a faint ringing noise. It got louder as I pushed the button to unlock my doors. My cell phone was in my center console ringing away. Seems my sisters fever went back up and she wanted me to come get my nephew. She lives about a minute from Patterson Park, so I went and got him and brought him over here for the night. He was great, he took a bath, ate his cereal and fruit,(baby oatmeal and I think pears) took a bottle, and went to sleep. He slept soundly until 7:15 this morning. I fed him another bottle, then he went with my mom to a program at my little sisters school. I hope someday that I can have a baby as perfect as he is. Even if I can't have it myself, I hope I get the opportunity to be a mom.
There is a little girl I have babysat for a few times. Her mom had a baby boy six weeks ago, he has downs syndrome. To me he is perfect also. He's such a little fellow and has such a hard life ahead of him. They won't know the extent of his downs (as far as mental and physical development), until he is older. I pray that he grows to be a sweet, tender hearted boy, with very little limitations. I've always felt a strong pull towards children with handicaps. I should know something in a week or two about nursing school. After that, we'll see what God has in store for me.
I paid for my class reunion. There's no backing out now. I hope they're all fat. I know that's not nice, and should someone I went to school with ever read this, I suppose I would be emberrased. But it's true. At least I am an honest person.
The family is leaving for Georgia tomorrow. I'll have my nephew part of the weekend, but hopefully I can relax for some of it. My irritable bowel has been, well, slightly irritable this week. Possibly the stress of the reunion, or the stress of waiting for info. on nursing school. More than likely a combination of both. I'm just not feeling quite right and I pray I'm not headed towards an ulcerative colitis flare up. That is the last thing I need right now. Anyway, something is going on with my gut. I guess I should have posted a waring before this for people who don't want to hear about my colon. Well, Clark told us about his foot fungus, so I can talk about my colon. :)
Sunday, May 22, 2005
No Weekend For Aunt Sarah
My family went out of town this weekend. The last few years their out of town weekends have been my vacation alone at home weekends. I find it peaceful and relaxing when I'm here alone. Well, so much for that. I had my nephew friday evening while my sister worked. Then I went to bed and was awakened at the butt crack of dawn by the phone. It was my sister, not feeling well, wanting me to come get my nephew. I mumbled something about when I woke up I would get him, but that it would be awhile. I picked him up about lunch time and took him home around 8:00. By the time I got back it was almost time for bed. I woke up this morning, went to church and then picked up my nephew on my way home from church. My family was back when I got home from picking him up, and my mom took him back home tonight. All in all, I think I had about two hours to myself the whole weekend, not counting sleeping and church. I love my nephew. I love him more than I knew it was possible to love someone. But, at the same time I really missed my weekend to myself. My family will be gone again next weekend. I'm not looking forward to it so much because my 10 year high school reunion is Saturday night. Yes, I am old.
Today was Graduate Sunday at Church. There was a video of the five guys who graduated from high school. It went all the way from baby pictures to current pictures. Also, they spoke on it, saying what they planned to do now. Then their parents spoke about them and told embarrasing childhood stories. I am so glad that was not done when I graduated. I was thinking today that I barely remember graduation. I remember someone spoke and that it was in my school gym, and that it was way too long to only be having 19 people graduating. I went to a small private school. I have only spoken to maybe 3 of my classmates since graduation. I would not call any of them friends. I also feel like I haven't accomplished much and I'm definatly not where I thought I would be at this point in my life. I feel like the class "looser." Pray for me to not feel this way and for me to be confident and not turn into the shy, quiet person I was in high school. I'm still quiet, but not nearly as quiet as I was. I'm scared I'm going to go Saturday night and regress back to who I was then. I'm so much more outgoing and confident now. That is who I want to be Saturday. I want to be myself.
Today was Graduate Sunday at Church. There was a video of the five guys who graduated from high school. It went all the way from baby pictures to current pictures. Also, they spoke on it, saying what they planned to do now. Then their parents spoke about them and told embarrasing childhood stories. I am so glad that was not done when I graduated. I was thinking today that I barely remember graduation. I remember someone spoke and that it was in my school gym, and that it was way too long to only be having 19 people graduating. I went to a small private school. I have only spoken to maybe 3 of my classmates since graduation. I would not call any of them friends. I also feel like I haven't accomplished much and I'm definatly not where I thought I would be at this point in my life. I feel like the class "looser." Pray for me to not feel this way and for me to be confident and not turn into the shy, quiet person I was in high school. I'm still quiet, but not nearly as quiet as I was. I'm scared I'm going to go Saturday night and regress back to who I was then. I'm so much more outgoing and confident now. That is who I want to be Saturday. I want to be myself.
Tuesday, May 17, 2005
Filler
I wish I had something profound to post about.
Sunday at church we had a special prsentation of the 3 college students who are going on mission trips this summer. Bryan is going to Israel. It takes more guts than I have to go somewhere like that. I really admire the drive and the faith that they show when going to places like this. I also know several people who are going and have been to Africa. Maleria just doesn't appeal to me, so I think a trip to Africa is not in my future. I did go to Mexico twice in high school on mission trips. I loved it. It made me grateful for what I have. Sometimes I wish for more local mission work. I know there are lots of opportunities locally to help others. I know that here in Rutherford county, there are people living with no running water. There are children who go cold because their brother or sister are wearing the only coat they have. Seems sometimes like it is easier to go off other places and work with the homeless and the poor, instead of acknowledging that it exists in your own backyard. I'm not saying that foreign missions is by any means bad. I think it's important. I just wish I could see people get as excited about doing local mission work.
Sleep is something that has never come easy to me. I toss and turn and lay there and think. I think of things from 20 years ago, 10 years ago, last week, today, next week, next year etc... I worry about the past, present and future. I pray, I cry, I cover up, I uncover...you get the picture. We are talking a good hour before I fall asleep. I started going to Yogalaties (sp?) a month ago. At the end of class (my favorite part) she turns the lights out, puts really soft music on and we lay on our backs on our mat's. She tells us to clear our mind. Focus only on our beathing. Then she says to use your sub conscious and picture your toes relaxing, then relax our toes. She takes us through our legs, torso, neck, ect...and then you just lay there and breath. I have found that if I take myself through this relaxation excersise after I get in bed, I fall asleep much faster. now if I can just get my tummy to shrink...
My nephew had his six months checkup today. He is 18.4 pounds and 28 inches long. He's getting so big! Speaking of getting big, my little sister has a field trip to Huntsville AL tomorrow. This is the furthest she's been without us. My parents had a funeral to go to today (I'll post on that another time). I picked my sister up from school, brought her home for a half hour, then took her to the animal shelter to do vounteer work with her girl scout troup. When I picked her back up, I had to go in and get her. Let me just say, yuck. While it is a nice new facility and seemed to have plenty of space, even a nice new place can't help being stinky with that many dogs. My car now smells slightly of dog, thanks to my sister. I saw two big fluffy cats that I would love to bring home. That's why it's best to keep me out of there.
Sunday at church we had a special prsentation of the 3 college students who are going on mission trips this summer. Bryan is going to Israel. It takes more guts than I have to go somewhere like that. I really admire the drive and the faith that they show when going to places like this. I also know several people who are going and have been to Africa. Maleria just doesn't appeal to me, so I think a trip to Africa is not in my future. I did go to Mexico twice in high school on mission trips. I loved it. It made me grateful for what I have. Sometimes I wish for more local mission work. I know there are lots of opportunities locally to help others. I know that here in Rutherford county, there are people living with no running water. There are children who go cold because their brother or sister are wearing the only coat they have. Seems sometimes like it is easier to go off other places and work with the homeless and the poor, instead of acknowledging that it exists in your own backyard. I'm not saying that foreign missions is by any means bad. I think it's important. I just wish I could see people get as excited about doing local mission work.
Sleep is something that has never come easy to me. I toss and turn and lay there and think. I think of things from 20 years ago, 10 years ago, last week, today, next week, next year etc... I worry about the past, present and future. I pray, I cry, I cover up, I uncover...you get the picture. We are talking a good hour before I fall asleep. I started going to Yogalaties (sp?) a month ago. At the end of class (my favorite part) she turns the lights out, puts really soft music on and we lay on our backs on our mat's. She tells us to clear our mind. Focus only on our beathing. Then she says to use your sub conscious and picture your toes relaxing, then relax our toes. She takes us through our legs, torso, neck, ect...and then you just lay there and breath. I have found that if I take myself through this relaxation excersise after I get in bed, I fall asleep much faster. now if I can just get my tummy to shrink...
My nephew had his six months checkup today. He is 18.4 pounds and 28 inches long. He's getting so big! Speaking of getting big, my little sister has a field trip to Huntsville AL tomorrow. This is the furthest she's been without us. My parents had a funeral to go to today (I'll post on that another time). I picked my sister up from school, brought her home for a half hour, then took her to the animal shelter to do vounteer work with her girl scout troup. When I picked her back up, I had to go in and get her. Let me just say, yuck. While it is a nice new facility and seemed to have plenty of space, even a nice new place can't help being stinky with that many dogs. My car now smells slightly of dog, thanks to my sister. I saw two big fluffy cats that I would love to bring home. That's why it's best to keep me out of there.
Thursday, May 12, 2005
17 Years Later
This time 17 years ago, I was standing on the Stage at Northfield Elementary School. I was a member of the first Chorus and the first class of 5'th graders ever at Northfield. Tonight I got to go watch my little sister, now a 5'th grader, stand on that same stage and sing in chorus. It was precious.
Even though I have basically not grown any taller (just a little wider) since I was a student at Northfield, it still always feels so much smaller in there than I remember. I always thought that my sister would graduate from 6'th grade there. Since she will be at a school for the gifted next year, that won't happen. The principle at Northfield left in January to get ready to open a new elementary school this fall. Several people are leaving Northfield to go to the new school. The Vice Principle and several others are leaving to go to my sisters new school. Northfield has meant a lot to me and my family throughout the years that it has been open. Leaving it behind isn't going to be easy.
My sister sang a solo tonight. I am so proud of her! She only had one line, but she sang it on key. In so many ways, because we are so far apart in age, she almost feels like mine. I look at her the same way a mother looks at her child, and I am just as proud of her as I would be if she were mine. I think that is one reason (besides money) that I still live here. When the time comes for me to move out, it's going to be like leaving my child behind.
Even though I have basically not grown any taller (just a little wider) since I was a student at Northfield, it still always feels so much smaller in there than I remember. I always thought that my sister would graduate from 6'th grade there. Since she will be at a school for the gifted next year, that won't happen. The principle at Northfield left in January to get ready to open a new elementary school this fall. Several people are leaving Northfield to go to the new school. The Vice Principle and several others are leaving to go to my sisters new school. Northfield has meant a lot to me and my family throughout the years that it has been open. Leaving it behind isn't going to be easy.
My sister sang a solo tonight. I am so proud of her! She only had one line, but she sang it on key. In so many ways, because we are so far apart in age, she almost feels like mine. I look at her the same way a mother looks at her child, and I am just as proud of her as I would be if she were mine. I think that is one reason (besides money) that I still live here. When the time comes for me to move out, it's going to be like leaving my child behind.
Wednesday, May 11, 2005
Hmmm....
Just checked my counter to see who had been reading my blog and it said Treas.gov read it at 11 this morning. Why would the U.S. treasury read my blog? Maybe because of all my talk of Tenncare? Strange, they must have been bored.
I give up
I gave up today and decided I am sick. I was in denial all day yesterday. My throat hurts like I have larengitus (sp?) but I haven't lost my voice yet, I just feel it coming on. I've already had it once this year, and I usually only get it once a year or so. I don't have tonsils, so it know it's not that. I think i'll give until friday and then maybe call my doctor. Last time all she did was put me on steroids, and I really don't want that again. Anyway, I just basically feel like poo.
I debated going to church tonight and finally decided to go. My nephew slept for about the last 20 minutes of class and was an angel, as usual.
I need someone to go with me to my class reunion on May 28'th. I don't want to go by myself. High school was hard enough for me, I'de like someone I know to be with me. I guess for moral support. I asked someone at church, but he will be out of town that weekend. There are very limited options at my church and he was basically the only one. There's the guy who doesn't like me, and the guy who I thought I might like. He works a lot and I am betting that he works that night. If anyone has any ideas, let me know...
I debated going to church tonight and finally decided to go. My nephew slept for about the last 20 minutes of class and was an angel, as usual.
I need someone to go with me to my class reunion on May 28'th. I don't want to go by myself. High school was hard enough for me, I'de like someone I know to be with me. I guess for moral support. I asked someone at church, but he will be out of town that weekend. There are very limited options at my church and he was basically the only one. There's the guy who doesn't like me, and the guy who I thought I might like. He works a lot and I am betting that he works that night. If anyone has any ideas, let me know...
Tuesday, May 10, 2005
no title
Now that I haven't seen him for a couple of days, maybe I don't like him? I don't know...it seems like I like guys lately who I have no chance with. Maybe it's safer that way. I have my little crush, I don't get hurt, everything is good. I think i'm ready to risk getting hurt again. I'm ready to love someone. I trust myself now. I know what I can and can't do and situations that I can't let myself get into or things will go to far.
I had my interview for nursing school yesterday morning. It was scary. I had to walk through this giggling room of students (who themselves were in the same situation a year ago), to get to the office where the interview was. They asked me a bunch of questions. A lot of questions that are illegal to ask in a job interview, but this was a school interview, not a job. They asked if I had any kids, if I had health problems, if I was on any medicine. I didn't tell them everything health wise. Only that I have had Ulcerative Colitis, but have not had problems in several years and that I take an immunesupresent for it, but I am on the lowest dose, and no I do not get sick easier or more often than other people because of it. Go figure, today I have some kind of cold/allergy thing goin on. Oh well, at least I didn't have it yesterday for my interview. I didn't tell them about my arthritus or anxiety or irritable bowel. Those are all things I have learned to live with and I didn't feel were any of there business. I know that I would make an awesome nurse. I hope they could see that.
God solves problems in great ways! I had a blood test done back in January at my doctor's in nashville. It was to measure the level of Immunesupresent in my body to make sure I am on the right dose. The only lab in the whole U.S. that does this particular test is in California. So we sent my blood off. Well, they aren't in TennCare's network. So Tenncare wouldn't pay them. My nurse filled out all these appeals and wrote a letter and I called them. Then today I finally called the lab cause I got another bill saying nothing had been paid to them. Turns out since I am on state insurance which is basically the equivalent to Medicade, they should never have billed me in the first place. For some reason in California (not sure about other states) they write off bills like that. So I owe a huge thanks to the tax payers of California who will be picking up the tab. So now I am glad I called them lab instead of spending the day on the phone with TennCare and not getting anywhere with them. I still don't know if I am going to loose or keep my TennCare. I really, really need to keep it. At least until I get out of nursing school or if I don't get in until I find a job with insurance that will hopefully cover me. I'm not sure where the people who manage TennCare come from, but if they would put some people in charge who have half a brain, TennCare could save a lot of money. Heck, from my experiences with them, I think I could them a few pointers. If it had been managed well in the first place, the budget would not be a problem. I could give some examples of their mismanagement, but I'll keep them to myself. Anyway, the bottom line, as I mentioned in another post, is that I have Chronic health problems, I cannot get insurance privately, and at the moment I am poor. I need to keep my insurance.
I had my interview for nursing school yesterday morning. It was scary. I had to walk through this giggling room of students (who themselves were in the same situation a year ago), to get to the office where the interview was. They asked me a bunch of questions. A lot of questions that are illegal to ask in a job interview, but this was a school interview, not a job. They asked if I had any kids, if I had health problems, if I was on any medicine. I didn't tell them everything health wise. Only that I have had Ulcerative Colitis, but have not had problems in several years and that I take an immunesupresent for it, but I am on the lowest dose, and no I do not get sick easier or more often than other people because of it. Go figure, today I have some kind of cold/allergy thing goin on. Oh well, at least I didn't have it yesterday for my interview. I didn't tell them about my arthritus or anxiety or irritable bowel. Those are all things I have learned to live with and I didn't feel were any of there business. I know that I would make an awesome nurse. I hope they could see that.
God solves problems in great ways! I had a blood test done back in January at my doctor's in nashville. It was to measure the level of Immunesupresent in my body to make sure I am on the right dose. The only lab in the whole U.S. that does this particular test is in California. So we sent my blood off. Well, they aren't in TennCare's network. So Tenncare wouldn't pay them. My nurse filled out all these appeals and wrote a letter and I called them. Then today I finally called the lab cause I got another bill saying nothing had been paid to them. Turns out since I am on state insurance which is basically the equivalent to Medicade, they should never have billed me in the first place. For some reason in California (not sure about other states) they write off bills like that. So I owe a huge thanks to the tax payers of California who will be picking up the tab. So now I am glad I called them lab instead of spending the day on the phone with TennCare and not getting anywhere with them. I still don't know if I am going to loose or keep my TennCare. I really, really need to keep it. At least until I get out of nursing school or if I don't get in until I find a job with insurance that will hopefully cover me. I'm not sure where the people who manage TennCare come from, but if they would put some people in charge who have half a brain, TennCare could save a lot of money. Heck, from my experiences with them, I think I could them a few pointers. If it had been managed well in the first place, the budget would not be a problem. I could give some examples of their mismanagement, but I'll keep them to myself. Anyway, the bottom line, as I mentioned in another post, is that I have Chronic health problems, I cannot get insurance privately, and at the moment I am poor. I need to keep my insurance.
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